 How to men deal?
Hey Guys,
I just found out last week that I have pcos. My DH is usually so patient with me. We've discussed the fact that I "may" not be able to concieve and he responded "We will have a family one day and we will find a way." He's very kind about my low sex drive and I feel blessed to have him as my husband.
The one thing I've noticed since my diagnosis on Thursday is that he doesn't want to hear me complaining, worrying and things of that nature. I think it's compared to nagging ?? I have no idea. We live in Hawaii and he offered me to go home to TX to visit with my mom and dad for a little bit to take a load off and just relax from the stress I've been going through. Am I wrong in thinking that maybe he wants a break too? I asked him to come home with me and take some leave (Navy) next month and join me. He says he wants to save his days for when his sister graduates from college.
I'm starting to ramble. My main question is could he be just as stressed out as I am? The events/sypmtoms leading up to the dianosis have made us distant at times such as insecurities, my low sex drive and stress.
Thanks guys
~Viv~
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I am the way I am
ME 24
DH 26
DX Febuary 4, 2003
Not IR
218/210/135
Meds: BCP
Looking into alternative remedies |