Denise, I feel your frustration. Its hard to be the bad guy when it comes to money issues. Especially when everything else is going fine, but it is the number one reason why couples separate. He hasn't even learned the hard way yet. :-(
Princess, congrats on the three years of not drinking! Sometimes when things get so frustrating like right now, I think about it but there's alcoholism in my extended family too so I don't drink either.
sl, what is formaggi? I love the Macaroni Grill. Wish they had one around here. I have to drive for 2 1/2 hours just to get to the nearest Olive Garden!
Well, things are very strained right now between bf and me. I'm not sure what to do. On one hand I want to say the hell with it all and break it off and on the other hand I really want this to work. I know he's not seeing anyone else and I know he does care about me, but at what point do I draw the line. I'm really getting tired of putting on this face that says everything is fine when for whatever reason its all changed in the past few weeks. Now he's at the gym with the kids and probably won't call until late, if at all! He said he would make the effort to let me know that he cares about me and that things will be okay but actions speak louder than words.
To top it off, I'm getting pains so I think I must be getting AF! If I start o'ing now because of the increased gluc and we aren't active, it'll be so hard to handle. |