sl, that is a good thought. We actually have 2 checking accounts. One is joint (he added me to his when I stopped working) the other is mine alone. I dont mean to bring baggage from the past into a new relationship but I am xtra cautious when it comes to money cause my x really screwed me with that. he usually deposits his paycheck in my account and I pay the bills. He has asked how do we not have any money left. I then wip out the check ledger and rattle off. Anyways, i had gone to the bank yesterday and ask if I could remove my name from the checking account and they said that it would have to be closed then a new one reopened w/o me. I just got off the phone with him and I told him that I wanted us to go to the bank Saturday and close the joint account cause I did not want to be responsible for things like that. He started to get mad but in the end he said he was frustrated with them and he understood where I was coming from. This does not excuse the lies. I was just wonder if my name was not on it I would not care what he did whith his own account. I wonder if that would solve the problem. I hate for this to come btwn us. So maybe there will be a solution. I really hate knowing it is so easy for him to lie to me.
hugs
denise
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