Unfortunately once the lies start it is sometimes hard to stop them... they snowball! But I think you have the right idea about getting off that account. It will force him to be more responsible for his own actions because you won't be there (for that account) to clean up the mess, or worry about it or even pester him about it!
Maybe during one of your talks mention that there is no REASON to lie, sure you are going to be angry that things aren't being done in a professional way... but that lying only makes it worse. Either that or... "I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT, YOUR JOB, YOUR BOSS, YOUR PROBLEM".
Just my 2 cents!
Hey and don't think that you are whining or that your have to apologize to us... that is why we are here... to be a sounding board and comfort zone!!!!
__________________ Stephanie
27 years old/ DH 27 -- Married 12/16/2000
Dx PCOS 09/2000 - Gluc XR 2000mg
And 3 sons thru the MIRACLE of Adoption
Austin (3), Andrew (4), Anthony (5)
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