First, I think everyone here is being to nice to you. I really get from your post that you are only concerned about the pcos because it is affecting her physical appearance. Do you love her or not? If you did none of the physical stuff would matter, and your post would have been about your concern for her emotional well being. I noticed that she is your fiancée, if you are not in love with her, set her free to find someone that will be. She will never be the same person, Physically, which you feel in love with.
I really get that you only care about her appearance. That type of pressure is not what she needs right now. She will come to terms with this in her own time. For her sake I hope she never reads your post, as it will devastate her, to know what you really think about her. I also think you need to read your post and put yourself in her shoes. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if she said all these nasty things about you.
If you can't live with it, think about what she's going through having to live with it and you. Not every woman is a 5'5" 105lb beauty. We are not all models, and shouldn't be expected to be. There are men out there that love us just the way we are. She deserves that too. |