Kat,
I want to tell you how sorry I am for you. It is never easy. However over time as I am sure everyone has told you it will get easier. I have m/c 5 babies, (my last one was twins). I never knew how to deal. One time I wrote a letter and sealed it in a bottle and threw it into the ocean, we said a little prayer and even talked for a while, cried mostly. That was my first time. For mothers day my DH got me a mother father and child pendent. But you know with all of our angel babies, this past one was the one that really hit home for him. We listened to the HBs on our monitor. He really began to understand. too bad it took him this long to realize. Men just are not built that way. They are not close to the action. If you ever want to talk let me know.
Everyone is different in how they grieve. You just have to find what makes it easier for you. Sorry if this is not helpful
~Missie
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