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casey1 · 07-13-2004, 06:41 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to share the information that I also felt different during my m/c at nine weeks as compared to my second trimester loss and labor. I am most certainly not minimizing a first trimester loss but I was completely flattened when I lost my son. I was quite saddened by my m/c and I still have bad times about it. I think when we have had a late loss as we have pregnancy is never the same. I also have to warn you that as time went on the m/c brought out a lot of the feelings of my first loss. I found myself thinking so much about Casey and the circumstances surrounding his death. I don't know what the mechanism is but I just tried to go with it. I made sure I had a couple of close supports who let me talk through it and it seems to have helped. Please know that my thoughts are with you. Hugs