Soya,
Our losses are virtually identical. The pain after that insulting early loss was almost unbearable. I was certain that I would never have a family.
I think the whole thing threw my hormones into a big mess, and once they straightened out a bit, I felt better and could see things in a better light.
Give yourself plenty of time to grieve. See if there are support groups in your area. It has really helped me, like having cysters in person! Try not to rush and put pressure on yourself right now. Getting out of bed in the morning is a huge accomplishment, so feel proud of everything else you feel up for.
We're here to listen, and when your body is ready to carry a child again, you know so much more about what care you need. It will go very well, and you can fill those arms as we all wish to do.
((Lots of hugs))
Sheri
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Metformin 1500mg, Yasmin, managing IR/pcos with lower carbs
First pregnancy ended at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix.
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Mary Catherine will be in our hearts forever, November 28, 2003.
Second loss March 9, 2004 at five weeks
Third pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Duncan 2/11/05, 9lb 3oz
Fourth pregnancy, Cerclage at 13w
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Ruby 2/27/06, 9lbs |