(((((Jessica)))))) I'm very sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers with this.. regardless if you choose adoption or to have a biological child.
Your sister, doens't realize nor understand the hard aspect of TTC... OBviously, she has had it easy and now that she isn't getting what she want's right away she want's to run to a DR. when what happened to her ( please forgive if I offend) was probably because something wasn't right in the first place. So our body will say ok..not good let's not keep this one.. We all know this..but she doesn't wanna hear it! I have dealt with so many insensitive ppl in my TTC journey and I will say it really makes ya turn red! I've watched people freak after 3months... It can take anywhere from 6months to a year to get PG and that is with both partner's being healthy and even then they could go on to the next year before they finally get PG..it doesn't mean that there is something wrong! I'm sorry you have to deal with that lack of understanding.. I know that sometimes people can be selfish regardless if they realize it or not.. being your sister.. it's hard to avoid her completely... I learned to just not talk about pregnancy, or trying to get PG with anyone who won't understand..I keep my mouth shut and so I don't hear the negative irritating comment's that make me angry..Not easy for everyone.. but if that is possible worth a try and stick to people you know will have a shoulder to cry on, or an ear to listen and acceptance! Goodluck I do hope that you find a way to have a child of your own...but I do think that adopting is also a good thing..so many unwanted children in the world. ((((Hugs))))))
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