i have not read through all of this post, but just reading the first few replies i was amazed at how similar my feelings are to many of those shared. for so long i have felt wrong and kinda weird for wanting children so much and being so worried about it. ever since my periods began i have had problems and by the age of 13 i was on the pill to control them. i have now been off it for eight months and have not had a period since. i worry all the time that when the time comes for me to have children i will not be able to. i love kids and like many of u i also feel like it was my purpose in life to be a mum. of course a career is important to me but having children is my most important goal in life and if i couldnt have them i would be devastated. doctors dont seem to take my concerns seriously, and they go around telling me i will find it hard to become pregnant and may need to undergo fertility treatments like its some common cold. its nice to find people who can finally understand and share the same concerns that i have felt so alone with for years.
Sonz |