I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby. You are right in saying that there are a lot of people that don't understand. I'm sure you will come across people who think they understand, and those who tell you they can imagine what it's like to go through a m/c, but unless someone has experienced a m/c, they really don't know what it's like. You will have to just think about yourself and your dh to get through this loss. If there are friends you can't talk to right now, or places you don't want to go to, that's fine. Dealing with a loss is something you can't be told how to do. Each person grieves and deals differently. Know that even if a lot of people in your life can't understand what you're going through, there are a lot of very supportive ladies on this board that can understand, and will do their best to help you through this. ((Hugs))
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dh - 28 dx 5/5/05 BFP 7/19/05....missed m/c 9/05 BFP (clomid 50mg + trigger + IUI) - 4/30/06! Twin boys born @ 33wks... 29 days in the NICU
BFP (clomid 25mg + trigger + IUI) - 12/19/08!
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