there are thousands of saintly women who simply cannot get pregnant. there are also absolutely horrific mothers who do unspeakable damage to their children. this woman is an idiot. god does not bless all who deserve children with their own biological children. it just happens. the world would be a much better place if only those who deserve and want their babies actually got them. it just is not that way. as for the surgery, god gives us the tools to help us heal ourselves through doctors and medicine. faith cannot heal everything. there comes a point when being involved with religion becomes fanaticism. i think your friend has started taking the trip down the scary religious freak road or she is just projecting her own guilt on to you. either way, honesty is always good. if she hurt you, i think you should tell her. |