[quote=jlbrown122 It's so hard to understand why those of us that wanted it so badly have lost our babies. It's normal to wonder if you had done things differently if she would still be here. The ob/gyn I went to 1 week after losing my baby (not the jerk I went to while pg) told me that there was nothing I did that caused this to happen. Deep down, I know that he is right even though I do have times where I blame myself...[/QUOTE]
This is so true, when we can't find any other cause we tend to blame ourselves. But Tricia, if that were true, then women who smoke crack,drink alcohol, get no prenatal care, starve themselves,catch all kinds of diseases, fall from airplanes etc. would ALL LOSE their babies. Please believe that it wasn't anything you did or did not do. I know it's hard, I went through this myself. I wanted a reason so badly. When nobody could give me one I blamed me.
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"My heart is broken, but not my spirit. My desire to be a Mother is greater than my fear of another miscarriage." Gina M. |