hi piper,
i am also a virgin and i suffered with the pcos symptons all through my teens at the time i didn't know it was pcos i just knew something was not right.
i kept going back and fore to my GP telling them about the pain and they also would'nt do a smear test untill i had, had relations with a boy.
nearly three years ago when i was 22, i was seeing my specialist about my cfs, and he needed to know my hormonal history. after i finished telling him the first thing he done was refered me to a gyno, i had a load of test, MRI, ultrasound, blood work,pelvic exam ect and it was then i was told.
I hope you find a doctor who will listen to you, the moment some doctors hear your still a virgin and they think you can't have anything wrong with you.
BlessedBe