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Originally Posted by silliest ROFLMAO!!!
Okay, you started it!
Yeah, I find leaving my legs, pits and nipple-lashes intact is much more sensually rewarding than shaving 'em off ;-> My partner either actually agrees, or is smart enough to say the right things .
The odd little wiry hairs on shoulderblade, cheek, and chest, however, they can go.
I've never minded a proper pelt. (on me or anyone else) but I *hate* scraggly hair on myself.
I'm a tall, strong-featured woman, and have often been mistaken for a male anyway. I don't *think* a full beard would bug me too much. I think I still wouldn't like having my pubic hair patch protruding around my swimwear, though.
But that's probably more sensory than social, in all honesty
Reading the distress in some people's posts really makes me want to go out and strangle whoever made them feel so imperfect just 'cause they're hairy.
I lived in Germany for a couple of years, and they (most of Europe, in fact) have a totally different view of bodies than we do.
They even had some porn hat I liked. Some of it was crap ;-> But some of it is *real*. Real people, real bodies, real(istic) stories. It's a whole genre there that glorifies realism. What a concept.
And I knew some very beautiful and much-desired women over there who had a *lot* more hair than me ;->
It really awakened me to how *stupid* the American hair-and-hygeiene fetish is.
When I went back to the US, I had a very hard time taking any of it seriously.
I'm glad you posted It's good for people to get a different perspective. |
Glad my erogenous hair made you ROFLMAO.. so why lie, right..
I am German by birth and several years ago one of the Endo dr's I saw said that even without the raised T level I would have been hairy just by virtue of how much hair covers my body...and asked me what my background was so I said German and he wasn't surprised that I was hairy... see it keeps you warm in the cold winters..
... my theory is that I am Darwins theory of evolution in reverse and that one day I will wake up in a tree craving bananas and have the ability to swing through the trees like Tarzan on speed...lol
It is the same in the UK as it is in the US regarding women and hair, but as I said it is the minority idiots who think that they are the perfect specimen of womenhood who are the ones who stare or make comments etc.... it's a shame that they don't look in the mirror and actually see how flawed they are.
I worry about posting my views sometimes because most of the cysters on here do find it hard coping with the excess hair and how much it can depress you, and I can understand that...and my views are the exact opposite of what most feel on here and I don't want to offend anyone. I try and give advice to the best of my ability as I have lived with pcos since i was diagnosed back in 81/82... I came to an understanding with my body and mind and accepted that hey it's me so i am hairy. many of you on here have loving husbands, boyfriends and girlfriends and they love you for who you are... I don't have a problem with my hair growth and today had my review at my dr's surgery and I went with a full beard, nobody batted an eyelid, ok I look like a guy anyway but even when my dr called out my name nobody in the waiting room took any notice that a masculine body with a beard got up in reply to a female name... I will however shave next weekend before my dad comes down for a few days, he knows I keep my mustache but I don't think he would cope with me with a beard...