I have asked my girfriend what I could do to make things better. All she has said is that I will have to respect her decision to focus on herself away from me. I do respect that. At the same time all I am hearing is that she doesn't want to be with me. I know I deserve the rejection that I am receiving, but feel totally lost. I don't have anywhere to go or anyone to talk to. Everything that we have together emotionally will be split and I don't like the thought of it. In my opinion, what we have is great. Of course, with many issues that need to be dealt with. We are just getting to the core of the problem and now we are walking away. I think we should work out the problems and I need to gain her trust and love back. By seeing a counsellor and trying to iron things out, we can at least say we did everything we had to do. After that, if it doesn't work out, there will be no regrets. Until now, we haven't dealt with the problems at hand, we have just avoided them.
Thanks for all the advice.
Aaron |