 Dreams of my children
It's been well over 10 years since I've seen my three children. I had made the choice to place them for adoption. It has been my dream and constant prayer since the birth of my eldest ( 1991) that several things would happen;
I dream to see them again, that they would understand why I made the choice I had and most importantly- and probably the most painful- I dream that some day people will STOP judging, condemning, belittling, and insulting me for the choice I made.
People talk about the gift of an adopted child but the ugly side of this gift is the way society treats the natural mother. It hurts... and what's worse is that I know of women who had abortions that are treated with far greater respect than those of us who chose their child's life. It makes me sick.
Holidays and birthdays are the hardest, my eldest was born just before Christmas and my second daughter just after the 4th of July. I cannot think of a greater emotional pain than that of losing or, in my case, giving up a child.
My constant dream- to one day be able to wrap my arms around them again.
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