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Originally Posted by Neechogan
I sometimes think that I might be putting too much pressure on her. I've backed off a little bit and I've been looking for other ways to be intimate with her. I've decided to approach the lack of respnse a bit differently. Instead of showing my dissapointment by pouting, I've reassured her that it was okay and held her instead. I could hear a bit of a sigh of relief the first time I did it. I don't know how long I could keep that up without feeling frustrated again. |
I find it impossible to believe my partner finds me desireable and so that makes intimacy very difficult for me. I know he loves me and this makes me think he is faking it all out of love for me. I know intimacy is about love but I need to feel desirable to relax. I wonder if this is what is going on with your wife.