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Originally Posted by mamma_buddha Has anyone been in my situation where they've had to tell someone new about it or they have been told from someone else? I want to move foreward with this and so does he, but I feel I need to tell him before anything further happens, and I'm at a loss for words. Help!!! |
Tell him you have a health issue you would like to discuss with him. Tell him he might not be able to cope with all the symptoms but you would like to give him a chance then just tell him you have PCOS which has a few cosmetic symptoms and a risk of fertility problems. Then ask him what he thinks about that.
If you do it quick and don't dwell on it he will just think in terms of facts. He won't know how he feels about the hair until he does or doesn't see it. Lots of men really don't care about it I have found. They seem to know women do a million things to make themselves attractive, they don't seem to be in the least surprised that beard removal and other hair removal might be a part of that
Fertility issues are very hard to raise early on in a relationship but just say you want him to know it might not be easy.
Good luck!