hey cali my name is Dwayne and my wife Amanda was told abt PCOS abt 7 months ago. At first I admit it was over whelming to me but over a little time and with a little effort on my part by reading. But please I beg of you that if you read any books try not to take it to far. My wife ( Amanda) read a part in a book abt towels and since I work away for weeks at a time she said that I was going to start to bring my own towels to work????? I told her she was not allowed to read that book anymore. When we went to the fertility doc he agreed with me that some of the things are kinda stupid to be in the books. But anyway I"m way off track now so just sit with your hubby and talk with him and express your thoughts/fears/ anything that's going through your mind. Don't forget to ask him for his thoughts and fears abt anything. You might get into a few arguements but trust me it'll be better than not talking abt it. Amanda and I have been trying to concieve for the last 5 yrs and we actually got it once maybe twice but it miscarried. I was so mad and discouraged at the same time it seems like the ppl who can't take care of kids seem to be popping them out like chicklets. Please feel free to IM me I have yahoo messenger and MSN so just check the profile and send me a message. Well I'll say this thing even though men seem to have the easy side of this but in all honesty what man does'nt want to have kids??? It's just as hard on us as it is on you women. Amanda told me most women feel that being a woman is alll abt being able to have kids but in response I think most men feel it's the most important thing they have to do as well. Even though I had a sperm count done and it came back VERY WELL I feel like my manhood was stolen when I can't get Amanda pregnant
Well I hope this helps you a little with your concerns. Wishing you all the luck in the world in TTC
