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Old 10-22-2006, 12:23 AM   #28 (permalink)
dwrm73
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hey I"m new at this thing. Being here and to PCOS as well. I know in my heart I felt like I"ve just had my whole world stolen from me when I found out abt ( please pardon my language) this ****ing curse called PCOS. I think that's all it is is a curse to those of us who want nothing more than to be daddies and mommies. I have a brother who was 2 kids as well and he pretty much wants nothing to do with them. Me I just want to rip him apart and flush him to hell where in my mind he belongs. His youngest daughter is absolutlely gorgeous with green eyes and flame red hair. But you think he'd want something to do with her..... NO just to make her mom's life miserable. I also have 2 younger brothers who are with women who had 2 kids each before they hooked up with my brothers. Now both of them have 2 of their own and when they told me abt their wives being pregnant I felt like God himself came down and ripped my guts out My wife's family can be just as bad. Her Granny ( god bless her) is 80 odd yr old and she can't seem to grasp the idea one of her family might have difficulty getting pregnant. But in a brighter sight my wife has been taking Metformin and now Clomid which is kinda of a god send in my eyes. I think I can deal with the mood swings and ooohhhhh boy trust me they are there in the final effort for us to have our own family. A small price to pay in my eyes for me to become a daddy( which I never realized how much I've wanted before this). I have yahoo and MSN messaging if anyone want to IM me. My yahoo is dwrm73 and MSN is newfieman73@hotmail.com. Please feel free to contact me cause I know we can't really talk to our wives abt all of our feelings so we might as well talk to each other right? Finally why can't other ppl just shut up and listen when they are being told abt why we can't have children? Sometimes I wish that they themselves could just go though what we go through to have kids. I'm not a resentful kind of guy but it comes out when idiots open their mouths with their useless input. I apoligize if it seems like I've ranted and raved but it felt good to get somethings off my chest for once. I suggest talking it over with your wife and letting it all out and pretty much let the cards fall where they may. My wife is taking 4 pills of 500mg of Metformin a day so I think she's serious abt having a baby as much as I am. She has told me( during a mood swing I might add) that she was sorry she is broken and maybe I should go find another woman to have babies with. I've told her that I don't want babies with any other woman but her and by God come hell or high water I will have babies with her
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