hi kevinsgirl,
im newon here so bare with me,
personally i wouldnt have one but we all make our own choices in life.
i totally understand what your saying i also have a lot of pain,
but with me i want children more than anything so i put up with the pain if it means that someday my dream may come true,
what i would say is that you say that you are 99% that you dont want kids but that leaves 1 % that your not sure
and if you only have that 1% dont do it cos once its done you cant change your mind,
so talk to some of the cysters talk to family and friends
but to chioce at the end of the day is yours
good luck and love
ceffion
