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Originally Posted by glen t  Neechogen
I also have gone through the feelings of dispair when I could do nothing to please my wife but I learned to not take what she says personaly and not respond until i have thought about what i intend to say and how it will sound and that makes it alot better. Dont think im saying I have perfected this action because i havnt, i still flip off my mouth and hurt my wife (summer). when i realize what has happened it is too late and the deed is done. I wish i could master this but I have yet to get complete control over my mouth. one thing that i have learned about the ladies with pcos is you never know how they will feel. one day she might be happy and then out of the blue you are the enemy. the best way to discribe it was said by summer "i love you but just dont like you right now" i have put alot of thought into this and found a lot of comfort in the words that she has said. i hope that i have been some sort of help and not just sound like and idiot.
glen t |
I know where your coming from here Glen.
I have learnt that taking what they say with a wee pinch of salt does help. I sometimes just realise that they are having a bad day and dont really know whats happening. Pand, often says things, i either reply or let it fly. She realises whats been happening and comes and speaks to me.
Just another step for me to learn how it affects her....