I have been in your shoes and somedays I still am in your shoes.
What PCOS has done to Corrie is horrible. She has no self-esteem, she feels ugly because of what PCOS does to her mental state and body image.
While there are some degree of looks involved in getting an attraction to someone, it was always Corrie's kindness, caring and affectionate nature that drew me in. to this day, I still have never met anyone who is so supportive, loving and genuine to all those she meets.
While sex is an important factor in any relationship, it's not the be all and end all by any means. I used to feel very unattractive because there would be periods where she wouldn't even touch me or caress me, not even a cuddle.
It wasn't until we sat down and talked everything out and made a commitment to each other that would help us get out of this rut. I started showing her more love and affection, not just saying it. It has worked wonders. She started to feel like she was truly loved and in turn, she started showing more love and attention on me.
I hope you and your wife can work things out. You are a great guy and you both are lucky to have each other.
__________________ Jason
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DW Corrie (PhoenixRaven)
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