 A pcos Husband
Franxcaddy;
Pcos is really hard on a woman. However it can be just as Hard on a man for different reasons. No matter if the man is a hands on mechanic type or an academic typr we all like to fix something if there is something wrong. When it is someone we love we want to take the hurt and frustrations upon ourselves but we cannot and that can get frustrating to us. I personally think that triing to console some one is difficult because men don't understand what the woman is going through although we certainly try. So we don't always know what to say and it sounds cheap to us even when we mean what we say. We picture you guy's going in you mind ( Yeah right vyou are just saying this because you don't want to sleep on the couch). I know most of you out there My wife included don't think that way. But it is something that runs through our mind..
When a couple with PCOS is triing to concieve it also becomes frustrating.. Ladies you know how men can make you feel like a piece of pleasure meat normally... Well when triing to concieve we can sometimes feel like a 24 hour sperm bank with more withdrawls then deposits. So just remember although not all of us will admit it but we like it when appreciation is shown to us as well and it dosen't have to be big.. it can be small things a few or many things just let us know you see what we are triing to do and that you appreciate it.. And he should do the same other wise to many people get into a rut and take each other for granted
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11 year dh still being supportive as it should be.
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