At the moment I'm trying to breathe, but I am so mad. Your husband shouldn't be telling you that it's "in your head". That is not right and I can imagine how upset this makes you. I use to have a b/f(of 5 yrs.) that did this same thing to me. He started making me doubt myself. I'm here to tell you this isn't in your head. I've spent years in denial and have just now recently decided that if I didn't do something to fight back against this disease it was going to get me. You do know the health problems that come with PCOS I hope. Your husband should be supporting you not looking at other women and telling you that he doesn't want to have sex with you. If you are only 130lbs you are incredibly lucky considering a lot of women with PCOS have a huge weight problem because of the disease. I'm not belittling the problems you have with PCOS...please don't think that I am. But if your husband is whining that 130lbs too big for him, I'm sorry but that is absolutely ridiculous. Last time I checked when you love someone it is for better or worse. I don't mean to sound corny but it's true. If someone really loves someone they wouldn't speak to them like that or try and hurt them like that. Love is unconditional. I'm not trying to say you should get a divorce I'm not even married myself but your husband needs to figure some things out real fast or he is going to be losing out. I hope you don't let him continue to treat you like this...stand up for yourself and let him know how you feel and that he is in the wrong. Have you told him how much his words are hurting you? You are NOT being too sensitive. This disease isn't easy to deal with, remember that when he tells you that it's in your head. I'm here if you need to talk or just rant about whatever.
Your cyster,
breezygirl7
P.S. If you haven't tried the chatroom there are a lot of great women there that understand what you are going through...most of us are on late at night. Come and join us
