Oh forgot to mention, as for the your crazy and don't have PCOS thing. Yes, its wrong of him to say, im not saying he is a nice man all i saying is he is a MAN! stupid hurtful remarks are one of the ways his hurt comes out in a way we (woman) don't understand. There are a few points of view on this.
1: he does not see the PCOS symptoms so you don't have it, in his mind he don't know what your on about.
2: he wishes you didn't have it, he cant support you, he cant help you, he cant get rid of it, there is nothing he can do about it. He wishes you didn't have it but he cant express his emotions, so you don't have it.
The crazy thing: Think of it this way, he tells you he IS attracted to you, you say no your not, he says yes he is! you say then why don't you want to have sex with me?? well you have just called him a liar, you obviously don't trust him or you would believe him, you have proved he cant make you happy because you keep having a go, you think he is a liar, you don't trust him and he is a failure as a husband. So he stands there extremely hurt and totally confused, he knows there is nothing he can say to stop the arguing, the problem is no sex the only way to fix no sex is to have sex, everything he says is a lie and he don't want to have sex because he is to hurt but you keep asking him for sex, emotionally he feels like a deer that's been hit by a truck!!! and you want sex????? he is a man so he cant express his feelings (that's not something bad, its just men), so out comes of his mouth YOUR CRAZY!!
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TTC since 2004,
Diagnosed with PCOS Dec 2006.
2000mg Met, started Feb 2007
Married June 2007
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