Hello hello
All I can say is have a little faith in your husband. I understand how he feels and it may seem like you're being negative all the time, but as the male of a beautiful lady with PCOS, chances are he would rather hear about what you're going through than be kept in the dark. Best thing you can do for him is simply let him know when he's being supportive. A good husband will move a mountain for his mate without any expectation or want of praise, but it's always reassuring to know that he did a good job moving it