aguywithquestions

Gentlemen,

I'm very happy to have found this website and have the chance to ask a group like you (anonymously) something that has been on my mind as I court a wonderful young lady with PCOS.

She is really about the most quality woman I have ever dated, I like her, and respect her very much. However, I have found that I am curiously lacking any real POTENT sexual attraction to her. And recently I have listened to a talk addressing the biochemistry of sex and how complementary hormones between men and women help engender such attraction.

This being the case, I am wondering if this young lady might have some hormone imbalance due to PCOS which neutralizes such a dynamic. Sometimes, for example, she moves just to hold my hand and I find myself somewhat biologically repulsed by it ... though, as I said, I do care for and respect her very much. If we didn't have this problem, I'd likely propose marriage.

So, I'm just wondering if my instincts on this are correct. After all, don't PCOS women have an imbalance of typically male hormones? I'm suspicious that this is the case with this wonderful lady.

Any thoughts?