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Old 03-04-2007, 02:01 PM   #84 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by gsmith328 View Post
My girlfriend has this problem, although she has yet to be diagnosed...

I feel the same way as the man on this thread does. My main issue is mood swings....the lack of desire also has reared its head recently.

I feel like there is nothing I can do right when she is having a mood swing, and it is very hard.

I need help figuring out how to support her, when most of the time she is yelling at something/someone. I am on the front lines of the battlefield with her most of the time.
welcome to the forum, i can only offer support the best i can.

My gf does sometimes go through the mood swing thing, the best i can do is sometimes to just cuddle her when she looks like she is feeling down about things. Cause we dont live together yet, we spend a lot of time talking on the phone.

Let the mood pass and sit with her and ask her what was bothering her. You sometimes find that it is something very simple or even a little silly at the time. You have to remember though at the time it is whats annoyin her the most. After the modd has passed try making a joke of it and make her feel better about it rather than distancing yourself away.

You will be amazed at how a cuddle for no apparent reason, helps loads.
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