Yeah, not knowing what's going on sucks way more than when you do know.
PCOS (especially with the words, not the acronym) can sound like a pretty nasty thing when you don't have a clue what in the world it is. It's even worse if the guy feels like something's wrong but you won't even tell him.
If he does end up getting fed up with it, it will be the lack of details that gets him more than anything else. Telling him what's going on, with as much detail as you've got, will help both of you out. Taking him along to the doctor with you and having the doctor explain things to him and answer his questions can help quite a bit too.
My wife having PCOS doesn't bother me at all. The effects suck and I hate them with a passion, but it doesn't have any negative impact at all on how much I love my wife.
I have found in the vast majority of the women that I have talked to about problems they're having (PCOS and otherwise), that the women are far more worried than they ever need to be about letting their boyfriends/husbands/whatevers know what's going on. Rarely has it ever been anywhere near as big a deal as they thought it was, and almost every relationship has actually been made better by it.
The other guys that have posted above me here have been hitting the nail right on the head with how a man handles things. I think sDH up there is my long-lost clone or something. |