I have been with my DF for almost 4 years now and when I first found out that I had PCOS we were still dating and in the beginning of our relationship. The best advice I can offer is, if he wants to go to your doctor appointment and ask questions, let him. If he just wants to go and listen to the information that is being given to you, let him. Also, make sure you ask him how he is feeling about it. AND ALWAYS ALWAYS PRAISE HIM FOR ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT HE IS GIVING YOU. He is probably just as confused about it as you were when you heard the diagnoses (if you're anything like me) and he can probably get just as frustrated with the side effects (depending on which ones you have) as do we. Be sure to make information available to him and keep reminding him how much you appreciate and love him. It's really not as big of a deal as we make it out to be sometime, they know it is not our fault. I believe that it's when we make it out to be a great big deal that they get the most aggrivated with it.
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