sorry about the spelling but i know it sucks, please deal w/ it. ok to catch everyone up to speed first i and happily married for just over a year and my wife has not been officaly dionogesed with PCOS but they are just waiting on the labs. the problem i'm having is from the effects of this f'ing sickness. bc of this she is not ovulating, the eggs are forming cysts on her overies. this causes all sorts of problems. the worst of them are migraines, depression, anger (due to the headaches and depression), and a wacked out period (the last 6-7 months stright). i'm helping her the best i can but i fell i can't do anything right. if i stay with her and try to help i annoy her, if i stay with her and don't try to help she thinks i'm mad at her, and if i leave her alone bc it seems to be what she wants i'm ignoring her! it's making me nuts and i know it's no realy her but the pcos that is making her act like this bc it screws with her hormone levels, and i'm sorry but any man (and most women) here will agree that when a woman's hormones get messed up, weather it's her time of the month or she pregnant or what ever to watch out. the problem is this is making me stressed out and seriously depressed. those of you who have known me for a while know my temper and i am catching it flare up more and more, this is made even worse becouse of my high stress job. i know my wife loves me and we say it to each other alot but to be honest i am feeling like i am being a big baby bc she won't lay her head on my chest anymore or just come to me for a hug or cuddle up to me at night ( i know part of the reason for this is me, my overactive metoblisiom turns me into a 6'8" 206 lbs space heater) or anything, i feel we are nowhere near as close as we were even a few months ago, and no i don't just mean the sex and personal contact, i feel she is putting up a wall and there is nothing i can do about it. there is a lot more i want to say but i haven't found how to put it into words. any thoughts and positive feed back would mean alot to me. please rember this is my first post and i am new to the whole situation so don't chew me out like i see has been done to others here.
