Hi biker_jt,
thank you for defending me on my thread. Reading your first post was a god send. You mentioned that it was like your wife has put up a wall. I never thought of it that way before. I guess you're right. It is like a wall - more like a fortress for me though.
You're not doing anything wrong, dude. At least you and you're wife caught it early enough in your marriage that you can avoid some of the things that have put a strain on my marriage. My best advice to you right now is to never give her any reason to doubt that you love her. Tell her every day. Treat her the way you did when you first started courting her.
She's not feeling the greatest about herself right now and doubting your committment to her will only thicken the wall and you'll eventually find yourself where I am right now - lonely and broken hearted.
I'm here for you, man. You can email me whenever you need to. I may not answer right away but I will get back to you (
neechogan@hotmail.com).
Take care and God bless.
Neechogan