Do you go to your wifes Dr. appts? Sometimes I think it would be helpful to have an nonhormonal advocate at my side. Someone who can say.... This is NOT in her head... and back her up.
It's amazing how hard this damn disease is on everyone around it.
Hang in there... I think I read that she is trying to get PG... that just makes things even harder... you grow up taking care of your dolls... you have this plan for you life since childhood... and then bam... sorry...not for you... or at least not just yet.
I often recommend meditative CDs that I used while going through all the fertility...
http://www.anjionline.com
I also recommend that women with our condition take up a hobby that has NOTHING to do with getting PG or balancing our hormones or anything like that... something to remind us there can be joy in our lives elsewhere...
I'm rambling... best of luck to you!