I am sure your wife doesn't mean to put up a wall........ You have to realize (like you said) when our hormones are all out of whack you don't know what to expect. For us it is even more frustrating. I find I get very moody and really can't control my actions. I know in my head I am not acting rationally but it never stops me from making a fool out of myself. My advice is just be there for her when she wants you to be. You can always vent here or to others just be sure not to vent to her. If she hasn't been diagnosed yet that means she isn't on treatment. I am sure once she starts some kind of treatment she will become her old self again.
It took me a full 6 months after starting treatment to feel "NORMAL" again. For the 2 years before daignosis and treatment I really thought I had some horrible life threating disease and I was going to die because I felt sooooo bad. Now I feel great and I am ready to take on the world. So see there is hope!!!!!!!!!!! |