Cor,
I have been married to a wonderful man for a little over 10 yrs now and this past May and July I asked him for a divorce. Reason being, I was emotionally and hormonally out of whack. I didn't want him to travel that road with me and at times I still don't. I'm afraid of what I could do(ie, cheat) because I came very close to doing that. I lost my mom in March of this year and have felt lost and trying to find something that was missing. Also during this time, I was diagnosed with PCOS in February, my husband was promoted and I just didn't feel loved from him. I really felt it was just me and my kids and he wasn't a part of our lives. We had it out on our 10th Anniversary(no one said I had good timing) then 2 months later. At the time, I would not say that it was the PCOS coming out, but now looking back it was. Now we are doing better and starting to make plans for us. We both enjoy going out together and without one another. Never really felt that way before.
In regards to your situation, PCOS is a hard thing to deal with for both the sufferer and their loved ones. Right now all I can say is give your love the space she needs. Its very easy to feel suffocated in a relationship and you do feel like you can't get out of the stranglehold. Do not contact her anymore, wait for her. If you don't hear anything over time, you know it was over. If she does contact you, listen to what she has to say and not try to force anything on her. If you do try to force her into something you want, you can make things a lot worse. Remember, if you set them free, and she comes back, it was meant to be.
Try reading the book "Managing PCOS for Dummies". My husband read the book and it really helped him gain more understanding on this thing. Good luck!
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Georgette(32)
Diagnosed 2/07
Mom of Caitlyn(9) Tristan(7) and Heather(6)
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Taking for PCOS:
1500mg Metformin, Saw Palmetto, B-complex, cinnamon, Biotin 5000 mcg, Zinc 50mg.
Taking for Allergies/Asthma:
Rytanan, Advair 250/50, Singulair
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