alaskaflygirl

Ooo ooo, me next!

For biker or any other men that want to weigh in on this...

My significant other and I are the same age (mid-twenties) and started seriously dating in March after having known each other casually for about three years.

I'm sexually aggressive/assertive and had been intimate with other partners in the past, whereas he was a virgin when we first got together.

We live together and are intimate at least once per day, but he's only initiated a couple of times in the five months that we've been sleeping together.

I honestly don't normally have a problem with this, but about once a month (like today), I really want to feel wanted. The two times that he DID initiate were because I was a bit intentionally withdrawn; somewhat manipulative, I know, but I told him later what was up. :-) I don't know it's a confidence/fear of rejection thing on his part OR if he's the kind of guy that likes to be pursued as opposed to being the pursuer.

I brought this up to him about a month ago, and he honestly didn't know why he doesn't like to initiate. I think he's attracted to me (he's affectionate/flirty in public and caring/sweet in private), so should I just accept things the way they are? Or maybe I should try to tone down my sex drive?

I wouldn't say it's hurting our relationship at all, but it does sometimes pop into my head...

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