Hi i know how you feel. I have alot of excess hair and not just on my face, my wife comments all the time that i am "furry" or sometimes her hairy hobbit. which is not at all flattering for obvious reasons. Some days i just give a tight smile and say nothing but other day i get so mad, it's not like she doesn't know it bothers me!! She just doesn't see why it upsets me so much because she says it doesn't matter to her!! Like at the party we just had her and my sister started on bout my moustache and when i gave them a whithering look and walked off looked at each other in confusion! like whats the big deal?!
Point is that the don't know how it feels, and when you try to explain they just shrug. Really they will never know how self conscious i feel all the time and if i ever manage to get five minutes where i don't think about it, they bring it up.
It is the most inconsiderate thing really, and all you can do is say how much it bothers you.
Your g/f should want you to feel better about yourself right?! So that you can relax and have fun together which is not gonna happen if you are constantly worried about what hurtful comments she is going to make.
Well that is what i told my wife anyway, will have to see if she gets it and lays off....
I hope things go wwell for you!!
Stephanie |