Hey LoveBluenFluff
what a great dream. It's close to mine - I want my PhD to be spectacular, I want the attention, the collaborations to come, the career, and I want babies. My husband feels the same way too, and its great being on this journey together. His own path is different, but we follow our paths together.
I don't see it as selfish - I really want to have a lot to offer my baby. If I didn't have a specific dream, then i would want to try and be be the best me anyway, for the baby as much as for me and for DH. I DO have specific goals, so I'd be letting the baby down if I didn't pursue them. That's how I see it.
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