Neechogan, SORRY I am a female but I do speak with my husband age 35 about this very thing a lot..I was your wife except older (also 35), I still am her in many ways, and my husband is you..but we continue to get through it everyday. there is hope, i noticed you began this post over a year ago, wow!!
may i ask what state you live in? I showed my husband the first post you made and he said yeah that sums up how he feels with the exception of wanting the child..you see we have one precious girl born 3 years ago after miscarriage. we have decided we would like more but my PG was horrible and her life and mine were at high risk, my husband said he cant take the chance of losing me or a baby again, so we thank god for the blessing of the one we have, some cant have any.. if you or your wife would like to speak via email about these things you may email my husband and me at
geabrat@comcast.net. I am going to show my husband the rest of these posts and ask him to help you out he hates typing so I might have to translate for him (if you dont mind). Hope my husband and I can help you both in some way..together we can conquer anything and so can you and your wife. hang in there, you have made it this far..sorry if your situation has changed I skipped several posts(pg 6,7,etc) just could not read anymore. My husband goes by the name coldbs (not cold as heart but cold as he works in a freezer).