 Need a Man's POV
I have been married for 10.5 yrs and the relationship has always been rocky to say the least. I'm beginning to realize that my husband is somewhat controlling and never has any interest in doing what I want to do. It's always got to be about him. I have been toying with the idea of divorce over the past few years just because I am not happy in the relationship and I really don't see a future with him anymore. What sealed the deal for me was back in November, 2007 I found out that there was a possibility I could lose my job due to performance issues. Now I have been working my arse off so to speak and have been improving hugely so hopefully it won't happen. Anyways, I got the guts to tell my spouse about this and he said and i quote "if you lose your job, we are over". No emotion nothing. He said this to me on 1/23/06 when I first started this job, so I know he means it. When he said this back in November, it made me realize that I am just a paycheck to him and yes he does work. He's also been yelling at our kids about the dumbest things and getting mad at them. Due to what he said to me about my job, I do not love him anymore and I definitely cannot forgive him nor forget about what he said. Since this area is mostly for men, can you all let me know if I am over-reacting or do you think I am justified in my thoughts? Thanks
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Georgette(32)
Diagnosed 2/07
Mom of Caitlyn(9) Tristan(7) and Heather(6)
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