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Originally Posted by gstump7694  Ok, here is what he said now. Since he was at work he didn't want to discuss the truth of what happened. He owned up to the website. Said he ordered it to help us out in the bedroom. Problem is, when I got home he had destroyed my computer. Hell, if he would have asked me to disconnect the internet for a while, I would have. He wants to work it out and won't take no for an answer. God, I don't know what to do anymore. I almost feel like giving up and say "**** it all". He is not mentally disturbed or anything like that. Probably the most put together human I know of. |
Wow! Somehow I don't think him drooling over porn will help your marriage at all but then I am not married to him. He destroyed your computer too? Maybe I am not understanding this at all. How did he destroy your computer, was it on purpose or did he pick up some nasty bug on a porn site?
Do you want to stay with him or show him the door? This "won't take no for an answer" sounds like a man who refuses to give up control over you. You need to decide what is best for you and your children.
If you decide to stay with him please insist on counseling for both of you.