I feel bad for you guys, but more than that I feel bad for putting my DH through these feelings that you all have told me about. My DH is the absolute love of my life. Did I feel this way the whole time??? No unfortunatly I did not I loved him but did not like him and I think that has alot to do with sexual feelings.
I am certainly no expert since my hormones are just now comming back around. But doing those little things for your man actually does work. We have gone and bought a "toy" and now he is ready and waiting when I come to bed. He has even gone as far as grabbing my hand and putting it somewhere to let me know. So he is getting bolder again!! It is actually nice to be making love on a regular basis!! I also have to say that even before when I did not want to do it and would for his benifit that I would enjoy it and ask myself after we were done why I did not do this more often.
I hope more women come on here and read this. There is another post with just women on it in one of the other forums on this board. I told the other women on there to come and read this one. Because even though some of you were blunt and some of the comments hurt my feelings it really put things into perspective for me and made me realize how screwed up my whole situation was. So Thank you.
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Me - 39
DH - 36
DD #1 - 20 DD#2 - 18 (I have empty nest syndrome BAD)
TR(tubal reversal) - 11/2/07
Taking:
88mcg levoxy
exercising 6 days per week and wanting to lose 127#'s
Started at 270 down to 205
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