We are adopting a 5-year-old little boy. He has been with us for 3 almost 3 months now. I would echo a lot of what Sazzi says and just add on that it is the HARDEST thing I have ever done. It takes everything you've got. We also have a bio child, which complicates things.
That being said, children should not be written off because they have some issues. it's really not their fault. If you feel it's right for you and dh, go for it.
One last note, though - make sure dh is completely on board because these boys are likely to want more from him than you or have a harder time bonding and trusting him. He's going to be put through the ringer as well. All the best to you!
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Andrea(31) and Shawn(39) married 11 years
Mom to Leon (age 6, adopted in June '08) and Anna (age 4, born the EASY way in Jan '04)
Not sure if my next child is coming through me or someone else - but he or SHE is out there. |