I'm sorry to jump in here as I am not a man, but my ex husband was a lot like that, only his was on the internet, he said he was just talking but he would tell them he was single. He did nothing to help me around the house unless I screamed at him to do it. He could not keep a job. One night while he was a t work he cheated on me with a hooker, he was working at a convenience store over night by himself, and they got caught, so he had to tell me why he got fired yet again, he had gotten fired for sexual harassment from another job before this. my point to this is you can find someone much better that is willing to be your partner in working and helping around the house, if they are just friends then he should have had no problem with telling you he went out to eat with someone and you should have met her before hand. I know when you love someone you take a lot of crap from them, I did for almost 2 years, but him actaully cheating on me was the final straw, unfortunatley we had a child together so now I am stuck raising him, but I lvoe him more than anything too. I am rambling but I just want to let you know you do not have to put up with that, tell him if he really loves you and can not live without you than he needs to do his part, he should go to the dr to see if he has a medical reason for sleeping all the time. Please do not think I am talking down to you at all, I just have been there and I understand how you feel. I am dating a wonderful man now and he treats me and my son so good, my ex is not in my sons life at all which is for the best. I hope you can make the best decision for yourself
