PCOS Message Board - View Single Post - Pregnancy after a loss

NicMarc1213 · 03-30-2008, 03:56 PM

Pregnancy after a loss is terrifying! But it helps so much to connect with others who are experiencing it, too. We can get through this together!

From the March of Dimes website (
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Be positive and remind yourself that every pregnancy is different and that every baby is unique and special.

Recognize that this pregnancy may be difficult mentally and emotionally, as well as physically taxing, and that the hardest point to get past will be the point of your previous loss.

Get the reassurance you need from your health care providers and be open about your concerns and fears.

Here is an article about fear following a pregnancy loss from Silentgrief.com:

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Deeply Thankful Members and their Due Dates:
April 5, 2008 - Almost 30
May 17, 2008 - Tiana's Mom - Karen
May 19, 2008 - HannahE
June, 2008 - Myrosepetal - Jana
June 4, 2008 - Luvtlc - Laura
June 16, 2008 - Sweetums - Amanda (aka Manders) - GIRL!
June 22, 2008 - BigBaby24 - Monique
June 26, 2008 - Lilalouise - Pam - BOY!
July 1, 2008 - Rainyangl - Deanna
July 13, 2008 - Phoenix Rising - Gina
July 17, 2008 - Isadora
July 31, 2008 - Inspired
August 8, 2008 - Kahartsell - Kristina
August 20, 2008 - MommyWestern
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December 2, 2008 - JaimeEC
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December 29, 2008 - c.a.rogers
January 1, 2009 - maddieb - laura

New Mommies (Our Graduates) - Congratulations!
mertletheturtle-Marietta - Kalina Amber b. 09/27/04
AvivaElona - Aviva - Boy! - Japhet Asher b. 1/31/05
SheriKCMO - Sheri - Boy! - Duncan Foster b. 2/11/05
StacieD - Stacie - Girl! - Elisabeth b. 2/18/05
heidi Albright - Heidi - Girl! - Konstance Grace b. 10/4/04
tndrmrcies - Karla - Boy! - Gianni Francis b. 6/22/05
pa1nter - Clarissa - Girl! - Emma Colleen b. 6/23/05
jillhon - Jill - Boy! - Ian Nicolaas b. 6/28/05
bookworms - Zena - Boy! - Shane Aly b. 6/28/05
Blue 1971 - Jacqueline - Girl! - Ruby b. 7/16/05
kwannabee - Kim - Boy! - Logan Brian Thomas b. 7/28/05
CathyWood - Cathy - Boy! - Brandon Lee b. 8/8/05
April_Bee - April - Boy! - Conner Lee b. 9/22/05
MOE - Tatisha - Girl! - Tjanique Aaliyah b. 9/23/05
Bunnyscott - Paula - Girl! - Kate b. 9/29/05
Perfect Data - Patti - Girl! - Allison b. 10/4/05
baloogirl - Yvette - Girl! - Devon Joy b. 10/8/05
K9Queen - Jessi - Twin Girls! - Natalie and Marjorite b. 10/24/05
Reebekah - Becky - Boy! - Micah Edward b. 12/31/05
saluki_fan - Meghan - Boy! - Alexander Thomas (Alex) b. 1/10/06
Alisteal - Melissa - Raeden Storm b. 1/15/06
loriette - Lori - Tristan Sawyer b. 1/26/06
dklbuckley- Karen- Daniel William b. 2/21/06
terilynn - Teri - Matthew & Michael (Twin Boys) b. 2/22/06
michellej - Michelle - John & Sydney (B/G Twins) b. 2/25/06
SheriKCMO - Sheri - Ruby Lee b. 2/27/06
RoxieInPa - Roxie - Norman Douglas III b. 2/28/06
levacy - Willow Aubrie b. 3/26/06
BJmccune- Jennifer- Jack Lucas b. 4/6/06
VivC- Viv- Dominici Russell b. 05/03/2006
hjackson719 - Heather- boy b. 5/14/06
fairyflies- Angela- Bonnie Rose b. 5/20/06
leamop- Leah- Javan Valentine b. 5/23/06
mdcoolus - Adit, Arul, & Delisha (triplets - two boys, one girl) b. 6/1/06
Kimoe - Boy! b. 6/16/06
MelissaJC - Caleb b. 6/16/06
SherLynn - Kyra Grace b. 6/24/06
prayingforbaby- Christian b. 6/26/06 (and maybe soon an adopted girl Madison!)
mtm71401 - Tamara- Presley Ann b. 7/11/06
enits- Julien b. 7/18/06
mystik817 - Lauren - b. 8/13/06
Turtlelove - Corbin Lee - b. 9/9/06
Ashbops - Kelly - Dylan Connor - b. 9/16/06
Ingrid, UGADAWG- Abbey b. 11/1/06
BuckeyeJen - Jen - Ava Katherine b. 11/8/06
Mustard Seed - Alenna - twins! - b. 11/?/06
psuchick14 - Holly - Maeve Eileen - b. 11/13/06
misdh - Misti - Ainsely Faith - b. 11/21/06
TTCcheer4xu - Sydney - b. 12/07/06
SABTeacher - Shari - Sydney - b. 12/19/06
Violetgirl - Twin girls - b. 12/23/06
Nicole47 - Nicole - Nicholas Randall (Klaus) - b. 12/29/06
KgOct - Kim - Jack Warrenton - b. 1/17/07
Tia38 - Eliza Anne - b. 1/29/07
Kadie - Wyatt Richard - b. 2/2/07
Lovepotato - Gideon James - b. 2/8/07
Meredith13 - Mackenzie Leigh - b. 2/16/07
ssaunders1187 - Samantha - Ryland Avery Marshall - b. 2/22/07
stephieannie - Arianna - b. 3/5/07
zoo7 - Courtney - Brianna & Zane - b. 3/20/07
Claudia737 - Isobel Somerie - b. 5/6/07
Nourania - Rania - Jennah Nour - b. 5/10/07
Jessnole - Jessica - Madeleine Julianna - b. 5/16/07
jcruz - Jenn - Michael Antonio - b. 6/25/07
Amela - Mediha - b. 7/10/07
Crownline266 - Julie - Kyle William - b. 8/4/07
Kerr - Elizabeth Anne - b. 8/10/07
Chocfish - Jack - b. 8/10/07
Kdmichelle - Kate - b. 8/14/07
Bonita13 - Logan - b. 8/16/07
Onelove24 - Lesley - Logan Reuben - b. 8/26/07
Mommyof2wnts#3 - Jennifer - Mason Nelson Alexzander - b. 8/27/07
Orcajbh - baby girl - b. 9/4/07
RoxieinPa - Roxie - Joey - b. 9/20/07
AngelTiggs - Claire - Jack - b. 9/24/07
Lauriern25 - Laurie - Gia Angelie - b.
Mertletheeturtle - Marietta - Aiden - b. 10/17/07
Angels091506 - Jordin Joseph & Alyssa Ann - b. 12/7/07
Saluki Fan - Meghan - Abigail Marie - b. 12/11/07
Neerp - Gavin Isaiah - b. 12/11/07
Rubylady72 - Zaida Margo - b. 12/24/07
Jayceepee - Jennifer - Jackson Bryan - b. 12/24/07
NicMarc123 - Nicole - Caden Joseph - b. 12/27/07
Mom2Amy - Maggie - Natalie Paige - b. 1/8/08
Crisslynn - Aeris Snow - b. 1/10/08
Raeannan - Logan Michael - b. 1/10/08
Biogal - Niki - Myles Lee - b. 1/21/08
Jallyson - Molly - b. 1/26/08
Heidi1973 - Kaden & Kory - b. 1/28/08
JennieG - Ella Nicole - b. 1/28/08
Tiara51 - Amanda - Ramier Casiem - b. 3/6/08
RandiGail - Miranda - Macaelen - b. 3/11/08
Nikisix - Niki - Nicholas - b. 4/2/08
Shawna7 - Riley Joshua - b. 4/14/08

Our prayers and thoughts go out to those who have come and had to leave us again. Our children are playing together in Heaven. When you are ready, we hope to have you back, and in the meantime, feel free to lurk/post when you are able to do so.
mom2amy - Maggie -7/8/02, 2/24/04, 11/4/04, and 7/19/06
RoxieinPa - Roxie (Yeah Norm is here!)
Dixiegirl - Alicia - D&C 2/22/05 - 7w 1d
anivan - Ann - m/c - 3/8/05
kadie - m/c confirmed by u/s 3/17/05
kimoe
ReneeBeth - Renee - Boy - Ari Lev, born & went to heaven at 19 weeks on 5/27/05, 8oz.
diana04 - Diana - 16w
Acajou73 - Renee - m/c 6/26/05
mystik817 - Misty - m/c 9/2/05
statpacker - Kelly
Dixiegirl - Alicia - D&C 10/12/05
misdh - loss confirmed 12/12/05
browneyedgurl - Stacia - D&C 1/16/06
TTCCheer4xu - twins - loss confirmed 1/16/06
NicMarc1213 - Nicole, 1st loss confirmed 2/8/06, 2nd loss confirmed (ectopic pg) 11/29/06
Phoenix Rising - Gina - 2/26/07 (Jordan joins Shelby, Nicole, James, and Skyler in Heaven) 6th loss confirmed 8/30/07
websissy - 3/6/06 (Ashley Rose was born until Heaven)
Isadora- 2nd loss confirmed 5/09/2006
MindiJean - 2nd loss confirmed 8/07/2006
ringbearer - 3rd loss 8/20/2006
Heidi1973 - loss confirmed 8/21/2006
orcajbh - Jonica - 2nd loss confirmed 9/6/2006
Annem84 - loss 1/07
Hopefulcyster - Kim - 2nd loss confirmed 4/23/2007
Tensei - Bekki - 2nd loss confirmed 5/4/2007
Sweetums - Manders - 2nd loss (twin boys) confirmed 5/7/2007
Keleigh - 2nd loss confirmed 5/15/2007
Stacey7444 - Stacey, 6th loss confirmed 6/18/2007
Shejayd - Sheena, 10th confirmed loss 8/30/07
Khenders - Keva, 5th loss confirmed 12/23/07
Mom-e-Jules-PCOS - Jules - Triplets; loss confirmed 1/19/08
Biogal - Niki - Myles Lee - 1/21/08 - 2/16/08
Snoozer - Melissa - 2nd loss confirmed (missed m/c) 3/08
Kadie - loss confirmed 3/26/08
Hela - 2nd loss comfirmed 4/7/08
Siany22 - 2nd loss (ectopic pg) confirmed 4/17/08