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Originally Posted by mlinn  No the text were way more than friendship they said things like I love you and I can't live without you beautiful.....all the romantic things I would have loved for him to say in OUR relationship. I love him but its obvious I guess he doesn't feel the same. He keeps calling saying lets work things out but then he says hateful mean things two minutes later. It just hurts that she seemed to get the best part of him, you know? I guess that is to be expected bc she did not have to put up with cleaning his clothes,cooking for him,taking care of him,putting up with his attitude and all. I don't know what to do...I do but I just don't seem to have the balls to do it. My mom bought me a new phone with a new number and told me to if nothing else take a break from him and talking to him and sort out my feelings. I think I am going to do that very soon. |
Girl, you need to be strong and have more self respect for yourself! If you found stuff like that, you need more than a break, you need to break up. He has so many things working against him -
1. Text messages saying "I love you" and other sweet things that should be reserved for YOU, no matter what
2. Not helping out around the apartment, basically letting you do everything
3. Not having a job to help with the finances of the household
4. If he really thinks something is medically wrong, he needs to go to the doctor and get it checked out so that he can get it fixed!! Right now, all it is is an excuse
5. He says he couldn't live without you and that you're the only girl for him, but yet you broke up for a few days and he immediately started "talking" to someone else?
Also, the "I can't live without you" statement is dangerous. You should WANT to be with someone, not NEED to be. The NEED to be with someone is dangerous and can turn into obsession... it's just not healthy.
If you feel like you are truly being compromised, then you need to stand up for yourself!
Sorry, got a little carried away there.