Nikbeehubby, l'm sure that you're not looking for kudos for being so understanding, but l'm giving them to you anyway!! Thank you so much for being so understanding about all of this with your dw!!
And in response to the original question, my dh and l were together prior to my being dxed. But l had a feeling that there were going to be issues and he and l discussed that about 6mos after we started dating. He was super understanding and supportive at that time already, and has only continued to become more supportive! When we were still dating, l was dxed as having pcos. He has never questioned that l was still the woman he wanted to be with and when l expressed concern that maybe he would be better off with a woman who didn't have the problems that l do, he laughed at me and told me he loved me regardless of what may or may not be a problem in our future.
I think that maybe sometimes we as women, are a little harder on our significant others than we really need to be. lf he really loves you, he's not going to care about the pcos!! He's just going to want to be by your side if and when there are fertility road blocks! |