I know you want to hear someone, anyone tell you just to give him more time. You seem to be holding onto that hope that if you're just a little more patient and a little more understanding, that he will see what a wonderful person you are and start behaving like a responisble adult worthy to be your life partner.
I'm sorry, I don't think it will happen. It CAN happen, but it would take almost a miracle as it is highly unlikely it WILL happen.
I stayed in a marriage 4 years longer than I should have because I thought if I was just a little more patient, if I just tried to talk to him he would turn back into the man I fell in love with. I eventually had to realize that the man I loved died a long time ago and that for my own sanity I had to walk away.
Please don't follow the same path I did. Find an adult to have a relationship with and to be a life partner with. This boy (sorry with the way he's acting I can't call him a man) is not a fit life partner for you. No matter how much you love him, you cannot fix him or change him.
find someone worthy of you and who will take care of you, rather than you having to mother him and take care of him.
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Janette aka SilverHawk
on 2000mg Glucophage XR
25mcg levothyroxin
Pagan Cyster
On my way to a divorce!
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